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My Strong Desire For Solo Travel

 For more than 10 years I have been romanticizing about doing a solo travel. This fantasy of mine almost became a reality in 2021 but then I decided to take that cross-country trip to the border of Thailand with my wife. Although that trip was highly memorable and fulfilling, my desire to travel alone remains a mission which is yet to be realized.

I have never done a solo travel before. I imagine it to be more exciting if done in a foreign country. However, as it currently stands, my budget would only allow such an occasion to be done locally for now. 

Through a lot of reading on the topic, travelling solo is known for causing positive changes to the mind, body and soul. The common advice from those who have done it is that although it might not be for everyone, we all should travel solo at least once in our lives. Sure, it has pros and cons. But it makes a person more independent and resourceful. You will learn to handle your finances better. You meet new people and actually interact with them in ways you would have never did if you were travelling with others. There is this unique sense of adventure and mystery. No pressures from anyone else and you get to do exactly what you want, on your own terms. You will learn more about yourself, your limits and your strengths. It's truly one of the most rewarding and life-changing experiences.

I envision myself doing a solo travel one day, by train, travelling across the country, heading north towards Thailand but this time crossing through Terengganu and Kelantan instead of Perlis. Taking the overnight journey on one of those coaches that has beds and a diner for meals. Kind of like the movie Darjeeling Limited by Wes Anderson. Such a wondrous feeling.

In all that awesomeness, I think the only challenge for me would be sleeping alone in a hotel room or any strange, unfamiliar place. Most of the times it works out fine. But sometimes I just get this uneasy feeling that the place might be haunted. In which case, it will be a restless night of fear. Other than this particular problem, the idea of solo travel intrigues me more than I can bear. Plus, I'm already 40 years old and not getting any younger. I would prefer not to do this in my 50s so it's now or never.

I'm gonna have to continue growing my savings. Who knows? I might even afford an overseas trip when the time comes. Regardless, a solid amount of savings is a must.

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